tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9088783565849701867.post6214504442362009253..comments2024-02-05T14:40:16.485+04:00Comments on Dhofari Gucci: To Marry or Not to Marry Nadiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07216581844756113684noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9088783565849701867.post-66346537268888849152016-07-09T09:08:21.116+04:002016-07-09T09:08:21.116+04:00Children are always like a mirror of their parents...Children are always like a mirror of their parents. How this 'useless' young man can learn about life if nobody teaches them in younger age? It are the parents to get blamed. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9088783565849701867.post-65164957180694847292016-05-31T14:31:52.761+04:002016-05-31T14:31:52.761+04:00Fadhila - I'm not a tech person. Tell me how :...Fadhila - I'm not a tech person. Tell me how :) Nadiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07216581844756113684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9088783565849701867.post-58299622667260091962016-05-19T17:28:07.320+04:002016-05-19T17:28:07.320+04:00Why you still don't have share buttons to soci...Why you still don't have share buttons to social media?Fadhila Alfarajhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09864405516602895856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9088783565849701867.post-58932469626160710502016-04-26T12:48:26.872+04:002016-04-26T12:48:26.872+04:00Modrn ideas in a Muslim world. Good luck at convin...Modrn ideas in a Muslim world. Good luck at convincing all'em down there.Rambling Aroundhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09949568292937064899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9088783565849701867.post-13209356842789704482016-04-23T06:47:14.420+04:002016-04-23T06:47:14.420+04:00Everywhere is same concept of marriage in middle c...Everywhere is same concept of marriage in middle class families. I agree with you about the marriage concept in the ideal world....Lolbi Josephinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13868861592596528247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9088783565849701867.post-65509446690319243932016-04-21T10:31:55.388+04:002016-04-21T10:31:55.388+04:00Love it. And trust me, there is this syndrome not ...Love it. And trust me, there is this syndrome not just among the Omanis and Dhofaris but ALL over the world. My parents got my brother married hoping "he would settle down". All it did was give us all two more mouths to feed and support.<br /><br />So I hope all those fabulous "parents" read your post and wise up on their parenting skills. They need to take responsibility too!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08099895382434060849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9088783565849701867.post-30589612032980632362016-04-20T10:16:41.494+04:002016-04-20T10:16:41.494+04:00I like my grandfather's solution on useless so...I like my grandfather's solution on useless sons (my father---who is now a very productive individual---wasn't always): don't marry useless sons off. Kick them out. Let them live on the streets. Serious. a Homeless man actually taught my 15 year old father how to stay warm, and be grateful, and work hard. Then he came back to finish his school, worked a million crappy jobs, trained for a real job (then he got married). I mean, I married young, a guy without a job, and worked and supported us, but we were okay waiting for kids. We didn't want to mooch off my family because there's no way a single working spouse in an only okayish job can support a family these days without mooching off their parents (just saying).<br /><br />In my husband's family (interior) they usually don't let girls marry guys who haven't got a decent job (or whose parents aren't extremely rich and like, give the new couple a house in their name as a wedding present if dude's like, just a guy who drives a truck for pepsi or something). But they have smaller weddings than most Dhofaris;) and smaller mahers for guys who work, than losers. Loser get charged massively huge mahers, so at least, if the girl has to lose the loser after having a baby, she can afford to go to university and have a housemaid watch her kid to get on her feet while getting over said loser:). Seems to work generally well for this generation. I don't know if that is just is family though, or beyond them. Women from the village don't like to tell me (a blogger) their tragedies;).Omani Princess (not Omani...yet)https://www.blogger.com/profile/11738377563210269837noreply@blogger.com